So i decided to make a post about losing a best friend because i am so ya ☹
Around my age people normally are figuring out who there friends are. I in my opinion liked the group of friends i had and thought since i had known them since i was 15 months old it was true friend love. But no, sadly one of my friends did not think that and her being older than me is not questioned when not around me. The hardest thing i think about her leaving is that she doesn't even really care. ☹ If i post anything about our friendship (not including her name) She will always like my post. If i tell her i feel like we are growing apart she says "Oh sorry got to go" She doesn't even want to talk about it. Sometimes she sends me pictures of her and friends and writes #Besties. I am not in any of those pictures. It kinda stinks. Well i am moving on and i will now teach you how to move on form losing a best friend. This might even work for losing a girlfriend or boyfriend, who knows?
1. Unfriend or Don't follow Him/Her
If you are following or you are friends on any kind of social media, unfriend or unfollow. Just un any kind of social media you are connected to them with. If you don't see there pictures on all your feed then it will make you feel less connected but neglected. I know its hard but you got to do if you want to get over them.
2. Embrace that you lost a Friend
I know it hurts to really think about the lose of anyone, but it might make you realize that nothing is forever. I know rough. You need to realize that you lost someone before you can move on. You don't just quit do you? No!!! You need to know that your life is changing
3. You can Cry ☹
You should know that it is fine to cry. Just cry it out. It's sad even more sad when they are the one leaving you. It feels like they don't care, but don't worry eventually they will realize what a horrible loss you are. Also make sure that while you are crying you are in a bed listening to sad music and eating ice cream. It is all right to feel bad. It is actually normal to feel bad. You have just lost someone that you could tell anything to, that you could cry with, that you could laugh with, that you could celebrate with. And now when you need him/her most they are gone.
4. Treat Yo Self:)
This is the best part of losing a friend. Spend a day of you time. Go out and get yourself a gift. Maybe have a day at home were you get to be as lazy as you want. Give yourself a spa. Cook an amazing meal. Go out with other friends. Anything that is fun and can get your mind away from your ex-Bestfriend. Just be good to yourself.
5. Find some new People to Hangout With
Now i think you should be ready to mingle. Go meet some new people. Find some new friends. Don't feel that they have to replace your old friend but just try to find someone new that you enjoy to be around. This is an important step because if you don't meet new people you might feel like there is a gap somewhere in your social life. Don't feel bad about making a new friend because your ex-Bff sure wasn't.
6. Move on
Try to forget about them. Its that simple.
Hey,
Its lulu i hope you liked this last post. I hope it might have helped you also. Remember this might not just work on losing a friend. It hopefully works on love, death, and changing schools.
-Lulu
Hey,
Its lulu i hope you liked this last post. I hope it might have helped you also. Remember this might not just work on losing a friend. It hopefully works on love, death, and changing schools.
-Lulu