Most people i think don't actually process that boys also need saving in the patriarchy. Of course girls need saving, but what people don't understand is that while woman are supposed to be cooking and cleaning, men are supposed to be playing football, picking up chicks, and being the boss. And the boys and men who don't live up to that are weak, wimpy, geeky, annoying, and un attractive. Where did all of these stereotypes come from?
There is a great film that has just came out called "The mask you live in" by the Miss Representation. It is a documentary about a teacher that asked all of the boys in his class feelings they wish they could show or something they never told anyone. The results were interesting. You should check it out.